She was the worst mother in the world to my hubby and his siblings. At one point they ended up in Local Authority Care.
He spent his childhood bringing up his own younger siblings because she couldn't/wouldn't.
At 17 he had to drop out of school to get a job and look after her and the younger ones, because she was massively in debt and they were facing homelessness. She then threw him out of the house to move her new man in.
He's 26 now, married with a child of our own, but he still suffers from his poor upbringing - not finishing his education means he can't get a decent job and we struggle badly on his low wages.
His youngest brother has gone totally off the rails due to his terrible childhood and is currently in prison.
She has lied to my hubby, made false promises, even stolen money from him! And yet he will not admit she is wrong! He still thinks of her as his dear mum!
What really sticks in my throat is her offering me "advice" on how to care for my 18 month old son!!
She really wants to play doting Grannie with our son and don't think she's fit to!!
She smokes around my son and the one and only time I allowed her to watch him for an hour or so, she left him in his playpen and fell asleep on the sofa!!
He's a wonderful man, but he carries the weight of the world on his shoulders. He feels responsible for everyone and everything in his life, even his little brother's predicament. He has low self esteem and feels he's not good enough for me and our son. He works himself into an early grave to provide for his family.
As a child he remembers going hungry because there was little food in the house and he had to make sure his siblings got to eat first.
She is a thieving, lying, selfish, manipulative evil witch and I hate her for what she did to him. Even her husband (my father in law) left her because he couldn't stand her cheating on him - he later found out one of the kids wasn't even his because she's slept with his best friend while he was working away!
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